Dating younger guys benefits
Unless it's just a fun, sexy, baggage-free throw-you-over-your-desk situation where nobody gets hurt at the end. There's probably a reason no woman his age wants to date him. You'll end up alienating the friends who are dropping truth-bombs such as the one above. Sleeping with him might be a bigger emotional deal for you than you think. It's great how you guys are on the same emotional level, right! Next thing you know, he's your closest friend as well as your boyfriend — which creates a co-dependent dynamic that's bad for any relationship. Whether or not you tell your parents about him or not, it's a lose-lose. I know hearing that is like sticking a fork in your chest and ripping your heart out. Maybe you're sure that you won't be dramatic about it, like "other girls." But that shit tends to sneak up on you. If he's married, he's not going to leave his wife for you. He might be running from a bad relationship with a woman his age. (Wrong.) He's in a different generation than you; he shouldn't be a decade behind emotionally. Don’t you find photos of men speaking on stage on dating apps appealing?When you find out a guy you just met is a doctor, doesn’t your mouth water? However cool it makes you is exactly how lame it makes him.
And that's all about , the said power trip he is getting off on should be overt. Defending your relationship will frequently ruin your friendships.
Let’s look at both so you can decide whether dating an older man is appealing to you or not.
You’ve dated your share of men your age…and even younger.
At least then you know immediately whether you want to pursue something with him or not, based on whether your goals are aligned.
Chalk it up to older men having more life experience: they tend to be more confident.