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But, there’s a better way than becoming emotionally drained and resisting when a man acts like this…
So, what can a woman do to avoid a man’s “withdrawal response” in the first place to save them both the trouble?
Have you ever thought about how a man’s “emotional withdrawal” actually works, and what brings it about?
I’m asking because I’ve noticed something crazy and fascinating…
If you’ve ever had this happen and it dragged on, even just for a few hours or days, then you know it can feel like a slow “emotional death.” Your creativity, energy, and passion all start to wither away and you get drawn into some weird “funk.” Give me a silent nod if you know what I’m talking about and you’ve experienced the negative effects of “emotional withdrawal” with a man before.
Like when you seem to be drifting farther and farther apart, and actually talk and share less as time goes on…but the guy doesn’t seem to notice or care?
Right now you’re going to identify some of your own Limiting Beliefs around what it means about YOU when a man withdraws or acts distant. So what is the feeling you had when you think back to when a man withdrew from you? Now, take that negative feeling and find the “internal state” that it created inside you, which is the general emotional state that you felt.
That way, you can better understand and make good choices if it happens with a man again. Realize that the feelings you had, and the state you were in, were a result of YOUR OWN BELIEFS about what the man’s behavior meant. Our beliefs are NOT often the “reality” of the situations we’re in. Now…think about the negative belief inside your own head that created the negative feeling or reaction inside you.
- He tries to appease you by acting like he “gets” what you’re talking about, but he doesn’t really listen or take what you have to say to heart. You might even have one or two of these that seem to happen over and over.
It’s back to the same old guy behavior a few days or weeks later. I want you to realize that these are the withdrawal behaviors that take place, and I want you to become aware of how they work.