Dating a man 30 years older than me
Don’t you find photos of men speaking on stage on dating apps appealing?
When you find out a guy you just met is a doctor, doesn’t your mouth water?
Clearly, you haven’t found what you’re looking for yet, so why not go with someone older and more wiser?
Remember when you were a teen and your mom said that girls were two years more mature than guys the same age?
At least then you know immediately whether you want to pursue something with him or not, based on whether your goals are aligned.
Chalk it up to older men having more life experience: they tend to be more confident.
Some critics of women dating older men say they do so because they have “daddy issues,” but a recent study proved otherwise.
Here’s what it said: “…it is evolutionarily beneficial for women to seek older mates, and that there will be no significant difference in attachment styles between women in age-gap versus similar-age relationships.” What this means is that it’s an evolutionary pattern that women are drawn to older men, in part because of their status and resources. If you were pumping gas and a gorgeous Lamborghini/Tesla/Porsche pulled up next to you with a good-looking older man in it, wouldn’t you do a double-take?